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    Hi people.  The autumn has surely arrived.  Colors turning.  Leaves falling.  Acorns rolling around.  Goosebumps rising.

    When the weather went from hot to chilly, I caught a cold.  I thought that was all it was.  But then I was treated for a suspected lung infection.  The meds were causing me a lot of problems.  I won’t continue with this saga, except to say that it feels so good to feel closer to my normal again.

    While feeling sick, I remembered how well my grandmother would nurse me back to health when I was sick as a child.  I hope she can feel my appreciation.  We had a very difficult and mixed relationship.  But I’m not blind or deaf to the good parts.  I followed her advice in terms of what to eat when so many things were a problem.  It really helped.  She knew her stuff.

    Dance of the Word was wonderful.  The Brevitas Poetry Festival was also wonderful. 




    On Halloween at 7pm, I am part of This Poet Bears Watching!, hosted by Jacqueline Annette. 353 West 48 Street, 2nd floor, studio 4.  $10 includes wine, juice, and light food.  Costumes welcome!


            If you feel tempted to watch a kooky, gory, inventive film where I played a prostitute and the mother of a prostitute some years ago, here’s “Hectic Knife.”

    Hectic Knife 





    Much love to CGG-M  ❤ 💕 ❤

    Mindy Matijasevic

    October 26, 2026


  2. All Kinds of Entertainment

    Friday, October 16, 2026

     










        Hello people.  It's been a busy time for me.  The painting class truly left me with such great feelings of joy.  When I need positive thoughts and images to push away the negative ones, thoughts of moments in the class help.  Last Friday, October 9, 2026 was the opening for the new exhibit at the Bronx Museum of the Arts.  Work from my class was also displayed on the lower level.  My son's father attended with his wife.  That was nice.  I'd love to have the relationship with my son that we once had.  It was pretty wonderful.  The museum exhibits will be up through January 3, 2027.  It's a very welcoming place.  Grand Concourse and 165 Street, Bronx, NY.  




        When I got home, I saw an email from PayPal that a good friend (from high school) gifted me money.  What a feeling.  She's been an angel in my life, and she is amazing.  I have experienced several angels, and she is definitely one of them.  Before I could f it up, I ordered a pair of sneakers.  They have since arrived.  They fit, thank goodness.  It's always a risk ordering on line.  They are sturdier than sneakers.  They are called utility footwear.  I put my sneakers with holes in the garbage.  Yay!


        The next day, the Riverside Poets had a celebratory reading and picnic to launch their anthology which is a really good one.   I'm glad to say that they included three poems of mine in it.  It was good to see people in person again after much zooming and emailing.

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        During all this, I've been sick and on antibiotics and steroids, aside from my regular stuff -- inhalers, etc.  The antibiotics have been taking a big toll on my stomach.  I am grateful to have gotten to my job and home without a problem.  I was tested and do not have Covid, the flu, or RSV, thank God/dess.


        This Monday begins a zoom class I registered for from the Bronx Council on the Arts.  It's four Monday evenings.  The Bronx Council on the Arts has been such a crucial and positive force in my life.  This is called:  Mapping Your Memoir: Non-Linear Storytelling for Memoir Writers.


        I have to say, the Bronx really makes the effort to nourish its artists, all levels.  I am grateful.  I could use all the quality education they offer to help me along my path.  Since they are funded from other sources, the classes are free.  That is absolutely needed.


        On Friday, October 23, Evie Ivy will be producing her Dance of the Word event at 7pm.  353 Studios, 353 W. 48th St., between 8th and 9th. 2nd fl., Studio 3.  $20 includes wine, cheese, other snacks, poetry, music, prose, belly dancing.  A fun time.  Plus a short open mic.


        Saturday, October 24, 2026, 12 - 3pm, the Brevitas Poetry Festival at the Bowery Poetry Club.  $15 includes a copy of the anthology, the reading, and some treats afterwards.  A short open mic for short poems only -- 14 lines and less.


        Please mark your calendars for December 11th at 8pm for hilarity, the Almost Winter Comedy Show on City Island at The Artist.  Only $15, no minimum.  You may even BYOB.  I host it and book it, and I have good taste.  Laughter guaranteed!




    If you want to buy a copy of my chapbook, please contact the publisher, Esther K. Smith.   esther@purgatorypiepress.com



    Thanks.

     



    Major love to CGG-M  ❤❤❤

    Mindy Matijasevic

    October 17, 2026






  3. Creativity -- Comedy and Beyond

    Friday, October 2, 2026

     



    Hey people.  I have several things coming up that I hope will appeal to you.

    The Abstract Figure Painting class I’ve been taking at the Bronx Museum of the Arts will be concluding on October 7th.  Two days later will be an opening night for the new exhibit by professional artists.  They will be including a work or 2 from each of us unprofessional artists on the lobby level.  Please consider yourself invited.

    Friday, October 9th -- Bronx Museum of the Arts, Grand Concourse and 165th Street.  D train to 167th Street or Bx1 or Bx2 bus to 165th Street. It's from 6-8pm.  FREE!  Refreshments available, also free. 

    Saturday, October 10th -- Free Poetry reading will take place at 2pm at the Riverside Library, 65th and Amsterdam (across from Lincoln Center).  This is to celebrate the Riverside Poets 2026 Anthology.  (Copies available for $20 each.)  At about 4:30, we will walk to the picnic tables at lovely Riverside Park South, where we will have a free picnic with catered food and drink.

    Friday, October 23rd – Dance of the Word at 7pm at 353 West 48th Street, between 8th and 9th. 2nd fl., Studio 3.  There will be wine and refreshments included in the $20 cover charge.  The event will include poetry, music, prose, belly dancing, and just a good ol’ time.

            Saturday, October 24th – 12 to 3pm - Brevitas Poetry Festival (celebrating the short poem) at the Bowery Poetry Club, 308 Bowery, New York City  10012; F train to Second Ave. $15 admission includes complimentary copy of the new 2026 Brevitas anthology.   https://www.eventbrite.com/e/best-of-brevitas-festival-of-the-short-poem-tickets-2001407876836?aff=oddtdtcreator

     

    Saturday, October 31st -- I will be featured in a poetry reading – details to come.

     

         If you like to plan ahead, the Almost Winter Comedy Show on City Island at The Artist, 249 City Island Avenue, will be on December 11th at 8pm. Only $15 and NO minimum! Mark your calendars now for much laughter.


            I find creating so healing.  And much fun.  



    So much love to CGG-M  ❤ 💙 💚 💛 💜 ❤

    Mindy Matijasevic

    October 2, 2026


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     Hi folks.  I’ve been elated lately because I am in an Abstract Figurative Painting class at the Bronx Museum of the Arts.  There are eight classes.  We just had our third session.  It is FREE!  That includes all materials, even aprons.  The educators are wonderful.  My kind of teachers.  Happy to see us.  No right or wrong in our attempts.  I’m having a ball.

    One of the instructors told me she can’t wait to see what I come up with next. 

    In Monday’s class, one of the instructors mentioned stand-up comedy, and I shared that I do that.  While everyone was painting, they asked me to do some comedy for them.  I did.  They were hysterical laughing.  Now they want to be informed of my future shows.  How great is that!

    The students are all women and one gay man.  The instructors are both young women.  We are all so in sync.  I’m going to miss this when it concludes. 

    Two days after our final session, there will be a new exhibit opening at the museum featuring works from professional artists.  They plan to show a piece from each of us (non-professionals) on the lobby level when the exhibit opens.  This whole thing is so exciting.

    As far as comedy goes, on Friday 9/18, there was very heavy traffic on the way to City Island, and I was late and stressed.  When I began the show, I couldn’t get myself together, so I basically just started introducing the comics.  Honestly, I considered that I sucked as a comic but succeeded as a host.  The line-up (Jose Angel Diaz, Debbie Bazza, Paul Hallasy) was very good, and folks enjoyed the show.

    Two of my former co-workers attended the show, and they let me know that the b-tch, who let me go from a job where I worked for 18 years, got fired!  What a moment!  Now they are wondering if I would come back.  Amazing.  I’m still flying on the poetic justice of that person getting fired.  The administration that hired her didn’t put me on the hiring committee even though I am very perceptive.  She destroyed much of what was great about the program, and now I might be wanted back.  I just wish the previous administration would’ve valued my perceptiveness and let me contribute to the hiring committee.  They just liked to say that they value me, but really they were afraid of my truth-telling self.  

    The director who followed them was wonderful but only stayed for four years.  She never said she valued me; she didn't have to, she just DID, and it was obvious.  But the hiring committee was put together by the administration before her.  They grew a good program compared to others.  Many people benefited from the program.  But there were problems that I often brought up at meetings.  Hence, I was in a challenging position. 

    On Saturday, 9/19, at Pangea in Paul Hallasy’s EAT DRINK LAUGH show, I felt I did great.  The audience members were coming up to me after the show to let me know.  One of the other comics told me I had the room captivated.  It felt fantastic.

    My buddy Judy attended, and that felt great to me. We went out afterwards in the West Village for eating and drinking.  She treated.  She often makes me feel like the best date I’ve been on in a long time. 💛💚

    My current job re-starts Tuesday, 9/22, leading a creative writing class for retired folks from a labor union.  Last year, it went so well.  I hope that’s how it goes this time.

    On a local note, my upstairs neighbor who runs track in his apartment, has been gone, and I’ve been having peace in my apartment.  It’s been about five weeks.  I feel like I’ve been on vacation.

    'Til next time...


    * Not my painting; just something I found on Google.

    Major love to CGG-M  ❤ 💜 💖 💗 ❤

    Mindy Matijasevic

    September 22, 2026


  5. Looking Forward to Stuff

    Monday, September 7, 2026

     




     

     







    September always has that back-to-school feeling to me.  My part-time job leading a creative writing class will be starting up again in a couple of weeks.  Last year was a good experience.

     

    Plus, I am very excited about a class I’ll be taking at the Bronx Museum of the Arts.  It is FREE, and it’s for people over a certain age.  It’s abstract figurative painting.  A totally new experience for me.  Besides being free, the museum will provide the materials needed.  This is exactly the kind of opportunity I need.  It will be 8 sessions over 4 weeks.  The schedule does not conflict with the job.  I am so grateful and excited.

     

    Now, for comedy – I urge you to enjoy City Island while the weather is so pleasant.  Check out the quaint little shops, the restaurants (sea food and other), the view of the water, the seagulls, and then come to see the Almost Fall Comedy Show at The Artist (formerly the Starving Artist Café), 249 City Island Avenue, Bronx, NY.  $15 cover/ NO minimum.  You may BYOB.  There is a menu of light fare and delicious desserts, tempting but not required.  The show is on Friday, September 18th at 8pm.

     

    The line-up: Jose Angel Diaz, Debbie Bazza, and Paul Hallasy, hosted by me. 

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    The very next night, Saturday, September 19th at 9pm, I will be in Paul Hallasy’s EAT DRINK LAUGH show at Pangea, 178 Second Avenue, NYC.  Advance tickets ($10 + 1.90 fee) here: https://cur8.com/23871/project/141030

    $15 at the door. Pangea separately has a $20 minimum.  Let me know if you are interested in a comp'd ticket; the minimum still applies.




     

     

    Big love to CGG-M ❤💕❤

    Mindy Matijasevic

    September 8, 2026

                                 

     



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    "Are those shoes comfortable?"

    My teeth clenched, my fists balled, my toes curled at the question. I pointed downward and with a nearly casual tone said, "These?" My silver sneakers gripped my feet in shiny sleek self-defense or was it warning?

    Lara's question sent my sensitivity meter to the red zone of childhood hurts. Remembering when 3 years in a row my shoe size was the same as my age and there were no shiny Mary-Janes size 9 for me.

    My childhood shoe store humiliation ritual was in two parts. 1st the cold steel plate with bars that measured width and engraved numbers measuring length. I'd place my foot close to the heel cup thinking, "No one expects the Spanish Inquisition." At least not at Buster Brown shoe store. Part 2 was the salesman's inevitable announcement that my desired shoe, "Doesn't come in my size."

    Crestfallen as my arches, I endured this ritual through adulthood to an ambivalent plateau of size 10. Why ambivalent Rhonda? Some pretty styles actually come in size 10. Because shoe stores only get 3 pairs of pretty style shoes in size 10, usually ALL sold-out on day of arrival. 

    Years ago, a fall at a broken curb ended my lifetime affair with high heels but manic monitoring and frantic shop visits offer on occasion a rare, lovely flat to break up my clunky footwear monotony.




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    Until in solidarity with my waistline my feet decided to expand... asymmetrically: left foot to size 11, right foot to nearly size 12 but not really 11.5. With feet now longer, wider and weirder than ever, my shoe search is limited to anything in my size that doesn't make me feel like Big Foot.

    I hesitate when asked if my shoes are comfortable because... it's complicated.

    *The strap on these too tight beauties broke on first wearing.



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  7. Bully For You! By Rhonda Hansome

    Wednesday, August 26, 2026

     


    Psychopaths Regret Nothing

    Were you bullied in school once, weekly or daily? My 8th grade bully sat 2nd row, last desk. Taller than David Whitson and wider than Santos Rivera, Edwina Prescott was right behind me.

    The design of our old-style floor bolted desks gave Edwina the perfect target, my butt. I don't know why it started but Edwina Prescott and her protractor point were relentless. There was no way to combat her unseen poking without calling attention to myself. If you've never been subject to Catholic Elementary School disciplinary threats, you have no idea what I risked when I turned and whispered, "Stop it!" Her quiet response was a protractor poke.

    Annoyed, distracted and sore, I couldn't endure another week of torture. When Sister John turned from erasing the blackboard, I raised my hand and slowly approached her. Quietly, calmly I explained my plight and asked if I could change my seat? "No, do you think you're in a restaurant?" Puzzled, I returned to my seat remembering the only time I'd been to a restaurant. I'd climbed the dank stairs to Chop Suey* on Fulton St. at Franklin Ave. and never ordered Egg Fu Yung again.

    Six rows of eyes watch me sulk back down the aisle and slide into my desk. When I offered nothing else to see, as if on cue all eyes turned away. I considered a swift back hand to Edwina's big smirky grin. That satisfaction would leave me subject to suspension and my straight A "conduct" record besmirched. I couldn’t defend myself against Edwina’s protractor point poking. It continued until…I imagine it ceased to entertain her. My bully's ability to inflict harm extended as far as I allowed and Sister John ignored. I don’t know if she intimidated anyone else, protractor or no. After graduation big back Edwina shrank shadow thin to occasionally haunt my hall of would a, could a, should a.

    I marvel at (and possibly envy?) those who give no thought to “authority” or consequences. My big faced, broad backed, buxom 8th grade nemesis was a child out of control. Was she emotionally disturbed, chemically unbalanced or just living her best life?

    Edwina Prescott didn’t call me a racial slur, knock me to the ground or punch me in the stomach. She never spray-painted graffiti like KKK, kill all blacks, H^il Hitler or niqqer**. From elementary school to the day he died Austin Metcalf did ALL THESE THINGS AND MORE, yet his physically intimidating character and chronic anti-social behavior was NOT allowed as evidence at Karmelo Anthony’s trial for defending himself against a notorious bully. Would a, could a, should a.

    *Yes that was the real name!

    **You know what these are.

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