I hope to soon be presenting to you my t-shirt line. I have been planning too long and have to make it happen now. I need to do something. My friend and former co-worker, Kerstin, suggested I have matching mugs and sell as a set. I may start with the shirts, but I really like her idea. The line was inspired when a male told me I was a “selfish bitch.” I’m so far from either of those things, but when some people don’t get what they want, they default to that view.
Previously, a man in a double-parked car once yelled to me asking me the time (as if he couldn’t see the time on his dashboard somewhere). I told him “I don’t know.” Then he told me, “Come here.” I’m sure my face looked like, “Get the fuck outta here.” I kept walking. He called me a bitch. I yelled back, “You’re the bitch.” A young man seeing this from his window laughed. I walked more quickly. That’s when it became so clear to me how people use the word. Basically, if you don’t do what I say, and you are female, you are a bitch. I wanted to wear a badge saying: Proud Bitch. But since the word is interpreted so differently, I won’t wear such a badge.
When I was growing up, “bitch” was a term used for a mean woman. Then I learned it meant a female dog. Disturbing. As an adult, I realized the word had become a synonym for woman. Grrrr. I don’t use it that way. I don’t find it funny when comics call female paying customers “bitches.” I still use the word for a mean woman. One who truly earns it.
My t-shirts shed a different light, and I hope I get it going very, very soon. Stay tuned.
Love always to CGG-M ❤ ❤ ❤
Mindy Matijasevic
I got yer remote right here.... :)
ReplyDeleteVERY exciting! Congratulations on this awesome idea, and fresh step.
ReplyDeleteWay to go Mindy. FYI, you know I worked in construction for quite a few years. Last night I saw the move "North Country". If you'd like to know how it was for me back then and how IT STILL IS today, I suggest you see it on YouTube. Cried me a river for sure. Many people haven't a clue what it's like for a woman working in construction that JUST WANTS TO DO HER JOB. Happy you're going to work on that project. Looking forward to getting my T-shirt and Mug. Please try to get a good quality Mug. Lots of times if they are not of good quality...lead will seep out into the liquid. BUG HUG
ReplyDeleteSGDA, you made me laugh. Thanks. Elizabeth, I so appreciate your enthusiastic encouragement. Thank you. Melinda, I'm not ready for a tearjerker movie, but I will definitely keep "North Country" in mind for the future. Thanks for the info on the mug quality. I think I'm going to have to start with just the shirts.
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