I had been asked to do a few minutes of comedy at a holiday
show on City Island. I responded, “I’d love to!”
Then during the following days, I worried because nothing I do
fits between Jingle Bells and Holy Night. I thought I should rewrite the lyrics of a
holiday song, but I didn’t. I also didn’t think it would solve the
problem. I don’t tend to write G-rated comedy material. I worried until the day
before the show when I was talking with a couple of co-workers about it. I
shared my worry that I’d be inappropriate in the show. I also shared that the
people who asked me to participate know my type of material. One of the women
said something to the effect of “So, you can be the inappropriate portion of
the evening.” And suddenly I felt my shoulders relax. Self-acceptance is so
wonderful.
“Oh I like that. Embracing it. I’m the spirit of Christmas
Inappropriate.” They laughed. I knew I could do this.
My best friend went with me, drove, and taped me. When at the
last minute, I had needed something printed out (no working printer at home),
he printed it out for me and provided the batteries the camera needed. I am so grateful. On our
way to City Island, we cracked each other up so much, and I said to him, “We
are definitely funnier than what’s in my set.” And as usual, we agreed that we
have years and years of history, loads of reference points, and it is always
very personal.
The whole evening turned out to be much fun – the patrons, the
staff and owners, the performers, the sing-along at the end with instruments
for everyone. For me, the company and support of my buddy is very
happifying. Everything after that is a
delightful extra.
That's beautiful, Mindy. Just like you! Present tense! :)
Fred Arcoleo, your comment truly hit the spot. Thank you. What a nice part of my morning.
I embrace the "handsome" woman comments. It is a strong, male term and I dig that. Now, to be fair, when I was very young and someone called me Ma'am, I lost it. That was old and definitely not hot. I've come a long way, baby. Good set, Mindy. Thanks for the morning laugh.
Excellent Mindy! You totally nailed it(ugh...just got a visual!). Keep up the great work, and keep loving yourself Sista!
Thank you, Elizabeth and Melinda (Liz and Susy in my head and heart). Your comments mean a lot.
Your blog is my Tuesday highlight!
Thank YOU my friend. YOU can always call me Susy. I don't use it on FB because I do not want others to take the liberty that is reserved for those who knew me "then" and know me now. Love you!